2012
It will not take much for 2012 to be better than 2011…it’s possible I could mark 2011 as one of my least favorite/most difficult years in my adult life. And it’s over…and I survived. And while nothing completely life changing is to blame for my difficult year…and plenty of people had a MUCH harder year…I’m just grateful I can move forward and make this year SO.MUCH.BETTER.
SO with that I have a very short list of my 2012 goals. I don’t want a bunch of nonsense resolutions…just some REAL, meaningful, personal goals…things I can focus on and live by.
This year, in no particular order I want to…
Be PRESENT in my life…I want to answer questions more, spend more time, laugh more, play more, pray more, hug more, compliment more, study more, teach my kids more and have more patience. This year I want to focus on being the wife and mother I want to be…and I’ll embrace the hard times and know that they are frequent…but short…and pray for better times to follow the hard ones, because they usually do.
With that I have a goal of some sort of organization to the dreaded dinner hour! I HATE cooking, meal planning, recipe trying and especially grocery shopping…but you see I have 4 kids, so this year, I’m going to try and cook more, plan more and grocery shop with a list. I won’t be perfect at this, and that’s ok, but I want to try to do it more.
In my business I want to be more intentional and present with my clients. I plan to do more face to face appointments to help clients make their photos their art. I want people to see and enjoy their images on their walls as much as I do…because I believe it truly makes your home a happier place. I hope to incorporate studio viewing appointments in the near future.
I want to exercise again. Yes, I want to be skinny, lose weight and shed all those baby pounds…but that’s not my 2012 goal. My goal is just to do more, eat better and TRY. I’m not going to beat myself up for a treat, a bad week and another Dr. Pepper. That just sets me up for failure. I will however, work on running again. Get fresh air. Eat more vegetables, drink more water and be more intentional with my health…cuz it matters.
I’m going to take.more.pictures. Well this probably seems like a no brainer…but you see, I take pictures for a living…and you know what that means? I never take pictures for fun. This year, I’m changing that. I WILL document my family in the mundane, day to day life as well as the bigger/more fun life experiences. I never bring my camera places, cuz I just don’t feel like downloading and editing more…and it’s dumb…and I’m losing out on great photos…so this year I will take more pictues. Some with my Iphone for convenience sake…and others with my 5D MarkII…either way I will have photos of my kids and our life this year!
And on that note, my last real intentional goal of this year is to PRINT.MY.PICTURES. I won’t get caught up from all the years past, I can’t print and organize years of photos all at once, but I will start. I have this disease of perfectionism. I don’t want to do an album or a book online because I just want to do something really cool and unique with all the really great vendors I can work with…and so my photos sit…on my hard drives…and my kids can’t see them!! Because I’ve never had “time” to do the really cool ideas, they just haven’t done much of anything, except for what is on my walls. This year will bring a mix of small, loose 4×6 prints in a lame Target album that I probably already have…and some other digital books, and I plan to even print up one or two quality photo albums from one of the wonderful album vendors I’m able to order from. It won’t necessarily be done, but I’m striving that it will be better than years past!
That’s it. Which already seems like a lot…but hopefully it’s still a manageable list.
And even though this post is already too long and you CLEARLY don’t have time…I will say, neither did I the day I watched this…but I watched it anyway…and boy has it resonated with me. I love this, yes it can sound cheesy and no motherhood isn’t all rosey, but it hits the nail on the head. And it sure has helped me the past few weeks as I work on being PRESENT in my life.
The gift of an ordinary day…
What about you? What are your new years goals?
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Loved the video and your post. Thanks for sharing. I need to do the same with my pics. Since having a digital I never print them. Need to start.
Thanks for that reminder. made me cry. You think you have all the time in the world but then you blink and they’re grown up.
Bawled like a baby I did with that one. I really needed this post! Hits home with me right now. It goes way too fast. Thanks for sharing Jenn
I love that video, I cried the whole time. I too will now try harder to cherish every moment with my children. Thank you for sharing!